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SUPPORT CENTER - Adolescence can be difficult enough at times, but for gay and lesbian youth their differences often leave them feeling isolated and confused. Born into a culture that assumes everyone to be heterosexual, gay and lesbian youth often lack the acceptance, understanding and support their heterosexual peers receive. This is the precise reason Gay Haven made the support center for gay/questioning/bi/straight TEEN and/or PARENTS.


SUPPORT FOR PARENTS
Chances are you've found this page by looking at a browser history, checking a favorites list or happened onto your child while he or she was surfing the web. If so, you're probably in a state of shock right now. You're feeling anger, fear, resentment, guilt and bewilderment. So I've written an entire section for you. Please read it! I've received a great deal of help in writing it from parents who have been through what you're going through right now! (TWO SECTIONS)
GAY-STRAIGHT ALLIANCES

Find a Gay-Straight Alliance near you. Gay-Straight Alliances are a great place to allow you to be yourself and surround yourself with a supporting groups for gay, lesbian and bisexual youth.

HOMOSEXUALITY AND RELIGION
I firmly believe that sexual orientation has nothing to do with any religion, and calling it "sinful" is just an excuse by some very narrow-minded people to justify their hatred, violence, prejudice and bigotry against gay, lesbian and bisexual youth.  This hopefully puts to rest the arguments coming from conservatives that homosexuality is a "sin". (TWO SECTIONS)
HOW TO DEAL WITH ANTIGAY CONSERVATIVES
This top 10 list offers advice for gaining the advantage in discussions about gay issues and putting antigay conservatives where they belong—on the defensive.
COMING OUT STORIES
Before or after you come out be sure to read some of these coming out stories. They are very inspirational and/or tragically truthful. These stories will help you realize what coming out is like. If you have a story you would like to submit send them to cuteteen01@hotmail.com.
COMING OUT HELP

This guide has been written for gay and bisexual men of all ages who are thinking of coming out. We know that making the decision to come out can be scary and stressful. We believe that useful information and other people's experiences of coming out can help to prepare you for some of the consequences that coming out to family and friends may bring.

COMING OUT TIPS

Here is a list of twenty tips that you should read before coming out to anyone.

RELIGIOUS VIEWS ON HOMOSEXUALITY

Within almost every denomination there are a growing number of "reconciling congregations", that welcome and affirm people of all sexual orientations.  Whether your Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Buddhist, etc.. you can find how your religion views Homosexuality.

GAY ROLE MODELS

I feel it's important for the gay community (particularly gay and lesbian youth) and the general population to realize that gay people have made, and continue to make invaluable contributions to society. This is a sampling of the gay, lesbian and bisexual people who have helped shape our world, and continue to enrich our lives.

COMBAT HOMOPHOBIA AND HETEROSEXISM

Find twelve reasons (and there are MANY more) on how Homophobia hurts EVERYONE!

RESOURCES

Find over a hundred website and books that you can read about Homosexuality at this page.

QUESTIONS TO THINK ABOUT

In some ways, we've lacked a certain sophistication about how hard it is to win people over to our side. We're asking people to do something, to think, and change, while the antigay side is asking them to do nothing. Here are some questions to challenge yourself and to think about.